Welcome back! It has been a while, and I do apologise for the delay. Life has been a bit rough and frantic on my end, and so it’s taken me a lot longer than I thought to get this baby going again. Thank you all for your patience.

This week we talk about the painful side of achieving things. We all know how glossy achievement looks on Instagram and how effortless it can appear. But what about when you’re in the midst of doing the thing and it just sucks? Why does the process not feel like achieving at all?

Zane is many things; designer, actor, podcaster, possibly Yoda’s alter ego, and a genuinely lovely human being. He is also highly accomplished, and has a way of steadily progressing which is pretty awesome. Talking to him always helps me, so if you’re feeling the pressure of the grind, I hope this helps you.

Keep well,

-Paula

P.S. There are a few background noises towards the end of this one. This was a spur-of-the moment thing, and TNC HQ is always busy.

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EPISODE NOTES:

Things We Mentioned

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Zane talks about how the podcast takes up more time than a full-time job on a good day, and I wanted to chime in with a fun fact! I put about 5-6 hours into each episode before it is delivered to your ears. Hooray for useless trivia!
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There IS a not to secret feud between dentists and the rest of the doctoring world! Apparently, it may have come down to the University of Maryland giving the middle finger to two dentists wanting to add dentistry to the medical courses at the uni in 1840. Here’s a fun article from The Atlantic about it.

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The Fig Tree Quote: “I saw my life branching out before me like the green fig tree in the story. From the tip of every branch, like a fat purple fig, a wonderful future beckoned and winked. One fig was a husband and a happy home and children, and another fig was a famous poet and another fig was a brilliant professor, and another fig was Ee Gee, the amazing editor, and another fig was Europe and Africa and South America, and another fig was Constantin and Socrates and Attila and a pack of other lovers with queer names and offbeat professions, and another fig was an Olympic lady crew champion, and beyond and above these figs were many more figs I couldn't quite make out. I saw myself sitting in the crotch of this fig tree, starving to death, just because I couldn't make up my mind which of the figs I would choose. I wanted each and every one of them, but choosing one meant losing all the rest, and, as I sat there, unable to decide, the figs began to wrinkle and go black, and, one by one, they plopped to the ground at my feet.”
― Sylvia Plath, The Bell Jar

(After this, the narrator eats something and feels better. Which kinda goes to show that in the midst of an existential crisis, perhaps the best thing to do is attend to our mundane basic needs.)
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It doesn’t feel like we ever have enough time. And to a certain extent, how can we? When the whole wide world and all of the treausres of existence are laid before us, how can we possibly fit all of them into one human life? We can’t. Here’s an article by Psychology Today about prioritising so we can ease that feeling and make the most of the time we have.
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Imposter syndrome! What is it? Well here’s a cool TED-ED video all about it!

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Here’s a cool video on paying your privilege forward

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